Are They the One?

Are They the One?

A guide for women who are questioning compatibility with their partner.

How I would Help Rachel Fleishman from ‘Fleishman is in Trouble’

How I would Help Rachel Fleishman from ‘Fleishman is in Trouble’

No. I did not read the book, but for eight weeks, my husband and I ritualistically tuned in to the Fleishman is in Trouble television series.

My Mother Died (And then she Actually Died)

My Mother Died (And then she Actually Died)

I always anticipated this day would come, but I never could have predicted how it actually played out. I always imagined I’d just get a call or an email from a stranger...

3 Tips for Navigating the Holidays Alone

3 Tips for Navigating the Holidays Alone

I’ve spent many holidays alone. I was the only Jewish kid in my class and never felt like I was part of the dominate culture.

Why I’m not ‘In Network’

Why I’m not ‘In Network’

The majority of clients I see do not have a “mental illness.” They are often highly capable women sick of being asked to adapt to a sick society or broken system. Why should they get a stigmatizing diagnosis?

Why I don't Practice "Evidence Based" Therapy

Why I don't Practice "Evidence Based" Therapy

Time and time again, I’m doing good work with a client until their medical provider intervenes and tells them that CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy) is the only thing that works. Then the client...

How to Find Love

How to Find Love

You are in such a powerful position when you’re single. One of the most beautiful things about being single is that you are starting from scratch and have the opportunity to make more intentional decisions about who you bring into your life.

How to Find the Right Therapist

How to Find the Right Therapist

Every month I receive dozens of inquiries from women like you who are looking for a therapist. Not only am I hearing how hard it is to find a therapist — but once you conquer finances, scheduling issues, specialties, etc., how do you know the therapist is actually the right fit for you?